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Baby's First DollWhy does my mother keep trying to buy baby "all my first" all?

Like his first book sliding headstock, stuff for Halloween, a teething ring, etc. And it is always like oh yeah, it's your first ... whatever. Then she wrote messabes time in / on them. I hope THID does not cause problems in the future. I just leave it, even if it aplogizes always advance as she knows she may be overstepping its boundaries.

I like it cares really well and takes the time to choose and mail things to his property. But is she going to try and buy his "first" at all? Maybe I want to do some early too, since this is my first baby.

Like when she came home from the hospital. My mother said she was going to dress my baby to come home in. I told him I had already, that my best friend bought for her when I was pregnant again. It was just a cute little teddy bear Winnie White dress from Walmart. But my mother was furious! She almost cursed at me. But I told him to backtrack. She still bought the place anyway and he packed for me with "my first baby brush, comb and headbands" that she bought. I dressed him like I wanted though.

And for his Nursey, my mother insisted on decorating with a bunch of stuff every time she visits. But I can not stand disorder. I live in an apartment. Anyway, what do you think of that. I know she wants.

I know how you feel. My MIL never had a girl if she spends all her time on mine. She buys her everything. I was in tears the other day because she bought him his first Dollie I wanted to do. I told him that I have enough that if she wanted to buy things for my daughter at least let me join in the mall. She agreed and now we buy all the first set.

As you said, it is that it is involved. That being said, you are the mother of the baby and you have to decide what you will in his life. If you want your mom to back a little, you should explain politely that you need space to do things as you wish. Remind him that you are a grown woman and capable of making decisions for your child.

Yes it would be difficult. I have relatives who have no interest so I had the other extreme.

remmeber shes had time to have children is what your baby this is ur time with ur baby u created ... greandparents need to know their place is not his first CPDN

good luck and find a way with her husband, ur how to address the issue

My mother was kind of the same way, and finally I just tried to get his head. As for her first Halloween in shape, I bought it two months in advance so that she could not do it. At that time, I also bought his first seizure at Thanksgiving and Christmas. She beat me on the first Christmas dress well. Try to get to it. Buy a few months in advance. Or you can say something to her. Tell her that shes your baby and you want to be able to do so. Maybe she thinks you need help with money? I think that's what my problem is mothers.

I do not know where you and your mother live in relation to each other, but if it is not close, then just put things up and leave when she comes over.

I know that I find annoying when my parents or my parents my bf to do. It's as if you've had your chance to parenthood, so let me do what I want to do. Just tell him how you feel, if it can not accept that, then it is pretty child in the situation. You always want to do everything you can for your first child. Of course donations and support are good, but sometimes that's enough.

Well mom is probably just happy to be a grandmother and why not let them turn to your child. What you could do is put your mother and suggested she run articles by yourself whether you can save your say as to whether it fits yo.

Posted on May 4, 2010.
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