Building Blocks Day Nursery

I have three children - a 5 year old daughter, a 3 year old son and a son of 1 year.
My child East has always been a bit of a handful - He used to cry for 20 hours a day he was born! He has developed many asthma and eczema. He crawled late, walked late and still can not speak properly.

I felt for some time that there is something more that two terrible - but I feel guilty to think that there is something "wrong" with him.

He does things like smack and kick his younger brother constantly. I tried everything to prevent him from hurting him - nothing works. He lay on the furniture and climb, he fled from me in the street and not stop running until I catch him. He throws things, breaks things, hits, spits, kicks, pinches, punches. He screams, he can not get his own way and blame anyone and everyone.

He used to hit people in the stores when I drove along in his stroller. He seems to have a red mist descends and he begins to fight - he grits his teeth and you know what's coming!

He is also obsessed with cars being aligned in a certain way - he likes to sort his building blocks of colors and shapes. It does not mix paints to all. It must have the television to a certain volume when at home. If it hurts, it unfolds and hit me very hard. He will not let me comfort him.

It can be a charming little boy who is love and nature - he kisses her brother and sister hugged me good night and cons and it is so funny and cheeky. This happened long before his brother was born and I started running out of ideas.

At daycare, they say it is beautiful - nice and quiet is how to describe it to him. When I go get him, it is usually with the group of children - but pretty calm. Sometimes it was Sat away from them.

I have not talked to my health visitor or other person because I do not know if I was paranoid. What do you think?

I know a child who has Asperger's and one thing about your child that sounds very familiar is the part where you said, it is really good in the nursery. Before the boy I know has been diagnosed I saw him a few times and he was an angel to me, very calmly and played well with my daughter.When her parents pick, they were very surprised to see how it behaved. It was a kid completely different for them. I do not really know much about this subject but it just sounded like, so I do not think it would hurt to have checked and you should not feel bad to want whats best for your child .

Maybe he could have ADHD or OCD even you really should talk to your health visitor or dr, it might be well to care because there is more things to occupy mind ... Speke finally someone

I would really like to talk to a counselor or pediatrician or perhaps a child psychologist.

This does not seem right. You should talk to your doctor or health visitor - someone needs professional evaluate the child. You need to do to get your son the help he needs. It may not be as serious, and you can catch it early, because it is able to behave properly at the nursery school. But nothing will happen unless you say something.

I do not think you're paranoid. I think it would be a good idea to discuss with your health visitor, so that things like ADHD can be excluded. She might be able to advise you on ways to fight against his behavior, or at least put your mind at ease.

It is good that he can be gentle and affectionate and calm - it was constantly throwing an adjustment in anger, which is more disturbing.

Try not to feel bad to feel guilty - not as a bad emotion, but rather shows how much you care f.